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Me, Myself & I

Extremely faithful.
Romantic and sensitive.
Friendly when nicely approached.
Responsible.
Moody.
Simple.
Creative.
Committed.
Emotional.
Sensitive.

Don't bother me, I bite.

Happily married, with one child.

 

The Truth

Of all the rights of women, the greatest is to be a mother.

When I'm down, I look up to Him. When I'm bothered, I speak to myself. When I'm sad, I choose to be alone. When I'm depressed, I write my thoughts. When silence speaks, I express myself…


Infidelity

Saturday, May 19, 2007

I'm into this Kuro Filipino Forum and just recently we were discussing about "releasing and letting go". Of course, I had my fair share of thoughts..

The question was  "kung iniwanan/pinagpalit ka ng mahal mo, palalayain o ipaglalaban mo ba sya?" As expected, everyone violently reacted hahaha! Iniwanan na daw pala bakit pa ipaglalaban and so on.Well, everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

But I made a follow-up question para mas magulo ang usapan "eh kung di ka naman iniwan, nag-two time lang sayo? Anong gagawin mo? Hahayaan mo na lang dun sa isinabay sayo o ipaglalaban mo?"

This is what I replied "I was once a victim but… I did not let go. Nakipaglaban ako….

Releasing kasi is as easy as ejecting a CD from a player. But letting go is far different from it. Nakapagrelease ka man pero ang tanong, have you let go? Kung susundan mo ng letting go ang releasing na yan, then only you can tell, you're free from that pain.

Pero minsan sa mga taong nabibiktima ng infidelity, di na kasi natin naiisip yung naging value sa atin ng taong lumoko sa atin. When I was in that situation, syempre initial reaction was galit ako! Ayoko na blah blah blah! Ang nasa isip mo lang at that moment ay yung maling nagawa nya.

Let's be fair din minsan. Isipin din kasi natin yung mga "magagandang" nagawa niya sayo, then weigh and evaluate it. Kung sa tingin mo naman karapat-dapat na ipaglaban, why not? Walang masama kung dun ka liligaya."

I guess experience is the best teacher…

May sense ba sinabi ko?

 

Posted by mitchteryosa at 17:18:00 | permalink

Previous Comments

to forgive is divine. a very hard lesson to learn. but i guess if you really love the person, you can see beyond his faults…

Posted by kimmy at May 19, 2007, 8:41 pm

sabagay… tama ka dyan! but i’m not changing my mind hehehe! asawa ko na eh. :p joke!

Posted by mitchteryosa at May 19, 2007, 9:02 pm

The hardest thing is to forgive.. I did try, we tried to fix things.. I did try to love him again, but just couldn’t anymore.. until one day, he gave up trying and decided that it would be better to let gooo.. if that is the only way to make us whole again..
I fought hard too.. fought with the other woman.. made noise.. only to find out, ang dami palang woman.. surrender nalang.. lol..
Looking back, it can still make me cry..
Nice entry…

Posted by luiza at May 22, 2007, 6:48 am

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